Wedding invitations often mention a dress code, which can be confusing. Here is a simple way to read the invitation and pick something suitable, comfortable and appropriate.
Reading the dress code
Cocktail attire usually means a knee-length or midi dress or elegant jumpsuit. Formal means a floor-length option. Black tie optional gives more flexibility. When unsure, ask the hosts.
Colours to be careful with
It is traditional to avoid white or cream, which might be seen as competing with the bride. Check any colour requests on the invitation.
Outfit options
- A midi dress in a solid colour with a simple wrap.
- A satin jumpsuit with heels or elegant flats.
- A two-piece set in a matching fabric.
- A long dress for formal evening weddings.
Practical points
Think about the venue: heels can sink into grass, and a shawl helps with cool evenings. Order early so you have time to return or alter.
Check the invitation
Look for the dress code and the venue. A garden ceremony, a church and an evening reception may need different shoes and layers. If unsure, ask the couple or another guest.
Colours to avoid
It is polite to avoid white, ivory and cream unless the couple says otherwise. Check whether they have asked for a colour palette.
Plan for the whole day
- Bring a wrap or light jacket for evening.
- Pick shoes you can stand in for hours.
- Carry a small bag for essentials.
- Try the full outfit a few days before.
